Sunday, October 16, 2011

Good Vibes

Topic: Humor


Source: Cypress 8th floor Dorms, Saturday morning (around noon), October 15th


Relation: Observing how humor gives off good vibes to the surrounding people and how it can change the overall feeling of the room.


Description: One night I slept over in my boyfriend, Kyle, and his roommate, Blaze's, room. We were woken up by a disruptive noise around noon from another suite mate. Instead of getting frustrated by the other bothersome people outside our door and telling the others to shut up or stop, Kyle and Blaze started making really strange animal noises and flipping around in their beds. They immediately fill any room they are in with good vibes because of their great sense of humor and outgoing personalities. Especially when they are together, Kyle and Blaze feed off one another's energy and together they give off good vibes that are taken in by anyone else they are with, making just about everyone they are with happy.  



Blaze Goldman

Kyle Brown



Analysis: The idea of giving off vibes, whether they be good or bad or anything in between, is very interesting to me. They set the mood of any type of situation. A persons mood when first entering a room full of people who are laughing and having fun is completely different from a room full of serious or mad people. When I go over to Kyle and Blaze's room I am always greeted with either humor or affection because they are never mad at one another and they are always having fun. Yet, if I entered a room that was not loving and happy, my mood would completely change from what it was before I entered the room to the current feel of the room. This is the case for most people when they interact with others. Humans and most other animals naturally tend to feed off of one another's emotions and vibes that are being put out.
I believe that humor is a very important part of being in a relationship too. Kyle's sense of humor never ceases to lighten up the mood or make me happy whenever I'm down. Without this connection of humor and our naturally fun-loving personalities, Kyle and I wouldn't be so close to one another. We are able to laugh after talking about something serious and I think that is important in our relationship. From what I've seen in other relationships, couples or groups of people begin to split apart from each other when situations begin to be more serious rather than humorous and people tend to not have very much fun. To me, fun and humor leads to happiness, which leads to good relationships and a better life in general.

Here is a link to an article I found about how humor is important in relationships:

http://www.helium.com/items/888985-the-importance-of-humor-in-relationships

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